The answer to every question

Have you ever found yourself searching for answers - turning to experts, friends, or even random internet searches - only to feel that nothing quite fits? You’ll find plenty of well-considered, knowledgeable opinions, each valuable in its own way. Even the sceptics and cynics have something to offer. But here’s the truth: no one else holds the answer you truly need.

There are no experts in your journey. The answer that’s perfect for someone else might not be perfect for you. Your path is yours alone, and the truth you seek is already within you. As Luke Skywalker tells Rey before she sets off to save the galaxy: “You have everything you need.”

This is the key to unlocking your journey. No one else can make you happy. No one else can heal you. No one else can wave a magic wand and bring your beloved back to you. No one else can answer the questions you are asking. No one else knows you better than you do, and no one else can make absolute sense of something that is meant for you.

But don’t take anyone else’s word for it. Don't take my word for it. Don’t try to recreate someone else’s experience. Try it for yourself.

Want to know what the number 22 or 1111 means? Want to know whether you should reach out to the object of your affection? Want to understand why you keep experiencing the same story over and over? Want to know why you’re feeling angry, sad, frustrated - or joyful? Want to know why your knees are hurting?

Ask the question, and you’ll get the answer you need. It will come in the way that’s best for you - and in that process, you’ll start to trust yourself. You’ll begin to know that whatever you need to understand is already within you. That you have everything you need.

Practical Steps to Start Trusting Yourself

1. Ask Clearly and Intentionally – Write down your question or say it out loud. Be specific about what you want to understand.

2. Observe Without Expectation – Pay attention to your thoughts, emotions, and surroundings. Clues might come in the form of a sudden insight, a conversation, a song, or even something as simple as a repeated word or image.

3. Journal Your Experiences – Keep track of the answers you receive. Writing things down helps you notice patterns and strengthen your inner knowing.

4. Practice Stillness – Whether through meditation, deep breathing, or just a few quiet moments in nature, create space to listen to yourself without distractions.

5. Use Your Body’s Wisdom – Notice how different answers make you feel. Does a choice bring relief or tension? Your body often knows before your mind does.

6. Trust Small Decisions First – Build confidence by listening to yourself in everyday choices, what to eat, which route to take, whether to say yes or no to something small.

7. Release the Need for Immediate Answers – Sometimes, clarity comes later. Let go of urgency and trust that the right answer will reveal itself in time.

   
   

How Do Answers Arrive?

Clarity comes in many forms. Sometimes, a thought pops into your head fully formed. Other times, clues appear in the environment - something a child says, an object that falls at just the right moment, a pattern in daily life. Piece them together, and suddenly, the picture is clear. Sometimes, the answer is in a book you pick up or a film you watch. Sometimes, it’s a search result that stands out in just the right way.

There’s no single method. There’s only your way.

So, if you have a question, seek your own wisdom first.

But if you’d like an outside perspective, feel free to ask. The most valuable answers, though, will always come from within, because you already have everything you need.

I share this because it’s what I’ve learned on my own journey, the hard way, through trial and error, through moments of doubt and deep clarity. And if you find yourself feeling stuck, if you want support in tapping into your own inner wisdom, or if you simply want to unlock more joy in the process, I’m here. Sometimes, we just need a little reflection to see what’s already within us. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’d love to help. Find out more about me and what I can offer in respect of The Twin Flame Journey here.